It’s Officially a Chase
You like him too much. You need to stop. It’s officially a chase. That is so embarrassing. Stop. It’s official. I don’t even look in people’s way unless I want to directly come in contact or interact with them. Have you ever been in that situation where somebody is acting some type of way because they feel like you might be into them? I don’t like that feeling, when I’m not even paying attention to you, and you think I’m paying attention to you.
So this is so far away from that, and you need to at least try to get over there, because it’s officially a chase, and you playing yourself. What he thinks doesn’t matter. You need to stop. It can’t be unseen. You can’t unsee that.
All of this stuff that’s on the internet about society and what people think and relationships and how it is, none of that is real. Once you close Instagram, it’s back to basics. People dream that they can find an internet minded girl. That’s a dream. But the real world girl, she ain’t going back. So for a person to feel like they have to duck off and hide, from step one to ducking off and running from you, it’s a whole bunch of stuff that went wrong. Nothing happens overnight. There’s a lot of things that went wrong for a person to feel like they have to run.
Only if you put him up on a particular pedestal that’s a little bit too high, you’ll feel it. But if you kept him where he deserved to be, then it won’t hurt, it won’t be so embarrassing, and you won’t feel so bad.
If you like a guy and you wanna approach him, approach him, but don’t be looking at him from across the room. Initially, sure, eye contact. You gotta make them see that you’re somewhat interested, but that’s all it takes for the right person. If eye contact, then tossing your hair, and maybe winking a little bit over a glass of wine, if that’s not enough, he’s not the one. He’s looking for somebody to play with.
See how I tell you how men be operating? Ours is all internal processes and a lot of metaphysics. Men’s are more instinctual, animalistic. You can’t beat that, because it’s on the physical. It’s in the realm of the real. I smell it, I see it, I feel it in my blood and my hair. It didn’t have to be that way. You don’t have to circle, dude. You can flirt up front, and that’s it. You’re not chasing.
I like you? Well, I don’t like you. Well, I’m turned off now, period. I thought you were something else. I thought it could be. I thought that maybe you liked me too, but considering you don’t, you might as well have 12 boogers hanging out of your nose. I don’t like you either. I’m not gonna like you, and then you show me you don’t like me, and me continue with time, add on more like, so I can like you even more. No. I’m going to decrease my like application down to a point where I can manage it. The person who I like, likes me too. That’s what I want.