The Little Girl Didn’t Even Know
This guy comes up behind a family. I want to talk about this, because there’s a lot to unpack here. It might seem like a simple video, but let me explain something to you guys. For your child, you do want to create a situation where your child is unaware of the BS that could possibly happen. Because it’s just like being afraid of certain things. Some things you are innately afraid of, and it came with you from birth, like spiders and tadpoles and roly polies. But other things are learned, when you’re introduced to trash behavior.
If this little kid didn’t see that little girl’s father standing there, he probably would have stepped in front of her. Unbeknownst to her, her dad, energetically, is checking the dude. Now what is sad here is that anybody, even a child of that age, assuming that this little girl is by herself, thinks he could just go out in front of her and skip the line, until he notices some big ass shoulders standing next to her, and then he steps all the way back. You’re not getting in front of nobody, because I’m standing right here. And then the dad do the cut eye, like, I know you wasn’t just going to walk in front of her.
What is the beauty here? The beauty here is that the little girl didn’t even know that whole entire interaction. She didn’t even know what just happened. She didn’t know she was about to get skipped. She didn’t know that her dad kind of checked the dude. That speaks to true, authentic protection. She is truly protected, because she’s unaware. If she was constantly looking over her shoulder, wondering what’s going on, looking up at her dad constantly for some sort of safety reassurance, then we would know where she is. But because she don’t even know this whole entire thing went on, that speaks to protection.
And it’s different between couples and dad and daughter and son, but when it comes to couples, that is the vibe that your woman should have. And when it comes to parents, that is the vibe that your children should have. Should have, could have, would have. We have things to deal with. It can’t always be perfect, but in a perfect world, this is what you’re going for.